Section 2: Preferences & Behaviors
How submission shows up in your fantasies, habits, and preferences.
How would you describe your sexual role in relationships?
Submissive
Switch
Neutral
Dominant
How frequently do you engage in submissive sexual behaviours?
Never
Rarely (less than once a month)
Occasionally (1-3 times per month)
Frequently (once a week)
Very Frequently (multiple times a week)
To what extent do you enjoy being physically restrained?
Not at all
Slightly
Moderately
Strongly
Extremely
How comfortable are you with the concept of pain?
Very uncomfortable
Uncomfortable
Neutral
Comfortable
Very comfortable
Do you fantasise about being sexually dominated?
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Almost always
Do you enjoy degradation or humiliation?
No, I dislike these scenarios
I am neutral toward these scenarios
I find these scenarios somewhat arousing
I find these scenarios very arousing
These scenarios are a core part of my sexual arousal
How much control do you prefer your partner to have over your sexual experiences?
I prefer to be in control
I prefer equal control
I prefer my partner to have more control
I prefer to have no control, and for my partner to have complete control
Section 3: Deviance & Non-normative Practices
Participation in practices outside typical sexual norms.
Do you engage in any sexual practices that you would consider unconventional or deviant?
No
Yes, occasionally
Yes, frequently
Which of the following non-normative sexual practices have you participated in? (Select all that apply)
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism)
Voyeurism
Exhibitionism
Fetishism (e.g., foot fetish, latex, etc.)
Consensual non-consent (CNC) or rape fantasies
Age-play (e.g., adult baby/diaper lover, DDLG)
Sadomasochism (inflicting or receiving pain)
Role-playing (e.g., pet play, master/slave dynamics)
Orgasm control/denial
Cuckoldry
Abstinence
How often on average do you participate in these practices or practices like these?
Never
Occasionally (once in a while)
Frequently (at least once a month)
Very frequently (multiple times a month)
Always (it is a central part of my sexual activity)
How much of your sexual identity do these non-normative practices represent?
None
A small part
A moderate part
A large part
The majority of my sexual identity
Do you experience guilt or shame after engaging in non-normative sexual behaviours?
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always
Do you feel that your sexual preferences negatively impact your mental or emotional health?
Not at all
Slightly
Moderately
Strongly
Extremely
Section 4: Psychological Attitudes
Beliefs and attitudes around control, vulnerability, judgement, and consent.
How much do you agree with the following statement: “I find pleasure in surrendering control to others”?
1 Strongly Disagree
2 Disagree
3 Neutral
4 Agree
5 Strongly Agree
How much do you agree with the following statement: “I enjoy being vulnerable in sexual situations”?
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly Agree
How much do you agree with the following statement: “I feel empowered by my sexual submissiveness”?
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly Agree
To what extent does your sexual submissiveness align with your personality in non-sexual contexts?
Not at all
Slightly
Moderately
Strongly
Completely
Do you feel that society stigmatises your sexual preferences?
Not at all
Slightly
Moderately
Strongly
Extremely
How much do you agree with the following statement: “I feel judged by others for my sexual preferences”?
How comfortable are you with discussing your sexual preferences with past and present partners?
Very uncomfortable
Uncomfortable
Neutral
Comfortable
Very comfortable
How important is consent in your sexual interactions, particularly those involving dominance and submission?
Not important
Slightly important
Moderately important
Very important
Absolutely critical
How much do you agree with the following statement: “I worry about the ethical implications of my sexual desires”?
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly Agree
Section 5: Emotional Aspects
How your preferences affect your emotions and relationships.
How do you typically feel after engaging in submissive or deviant sexual acts?
Satisfied
Guilty
Happy
Ashamed
Excited
Anxious
Do you discuss your submissive or deviant sexual interests with your past and present partner(s)?
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always
How do you feel your sexual preferences affect your past and present romantic relationships?
They strengthen the relationship
They have no effect
They cause occasional friction
They often cause difficulties
They are a constant source of tension
Do you feel that your sexual submissiveness is misunderstood by your past and present partner(s)?
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Always
Section 7: Receptivity to Influence
Rate each statement on a scale from 1 to 5, where 1 is “Strongly Disagree” and 5 is “Strongly Agree”.
I am open to new ideas, even if they challenge my current beliefs.
5 4 3 2 1
I enjoy letting myself get lost in fantasy or imaginative activities.
5 4 3 2 1
When listening to others, I often find myself agreeing, even if I initially had a different opinion.
5 4 3 2 1
I am good at visualizing scenarios vividly in my mind.
5 4 3 2 1
I can easily get “swept up” in the emotions or beliefs of a group or crowd.
5 4 3 2 1
I tend to trust people quickly and often give them the benefit of the doubt.
5 4 3 2 1
I find it difficult to say “no” when someone asks me for a favour or makes a request.
5 4 3 2 1
I am more likely to comply with a request if it’s coming from an authority figure or someone I respect.
5 4 3 2 1
I believe that people generally know what’s best for me.
5 4 3 2 1
I am comfortable following instructions without needing to question them.
5 4 3 2 1
I prefer clear rules and guidance to help me make decisions.
5 4 3 2 1
I sometimes feel uncertain about my own beliefs or opinions.
5 4 3 2 1
I find myself looking to others for reassurance in unfamiliar situations.
5 4 3 2 1
I am more comfortable when someone else takes the lead in decision-making.
5 4 3 2 1
I value having a structured environment over making decisions independently.
5 4 3 2 1
I am easily influenced by the opinions of my friends and family.
5 4 3 2 1
I often find myself thinking in line with the popular opinion on social media or in the news.
5 4 3 2 1
I feel uncomfortable when I disagree with the views of a group I’m part of.
5 4 3 2 1
I often adopt the opinions of others to avoid conflict or fit in better.
5 4 3 2 1
I tend to mimic the behaviours or attitudes of those around me without much thought.
5 4 3 2 1
I am more likely to believe something if it is presented in a dramatic or emotional way.
5 4 3 2 1
I can easily empathise with others and sometimes even feel their emotions as my own.
5 4 3 2 1
I am deeply affected by emotional stories or images.
5 4 3 2 1
I tend to internalise feedback or criticism deeply, even when I know it’s unfounded.
5 4 3 2 1
I feel emotionally drawn toward charismatic people and ideas.
5 4 3 2 1